Sunday, 27 March 2011
Thursday, 24 March 2011
Monday, 21 March 2011
Sunday, 20 March 2011
noun, verb, loved, lov·ing.
to have love or affection for: All her pupils love her.
to have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for (another person).
to have a strong liking for; take great pleasure in: to love music.
to need or require; benefit greatly from: Plants love sunlight.
to embrace and kiss (someone), as a lover.
to have sexual intercourse with.
It's looking past these flaws and accepting someone through not only their best but seeing them at their best whilst they're at their worst; you don't love someone from when you meet them but it develops as you get to know them & becomes deeper the more you go through life with them. I suppose what I'm trying to express is that people should stop being fixated on finding mr/mrs perfect and look more towards mr/mrs right, they may well be the mr/mrs perfect afterall
Thursday, 17 March 2011
Wednesday, 16 March 2011
Wednesday, 2 March 2011
The day that you see me old and I am already not, have patience and try to understand me ．．．
如果我吃的髒兮兮，如果我不會穿衣服……有耐性一點．．．你記得我曾花多久時間教你這些事嗎?If I get dirty when eating．．．
if I can not dress… have patience. Remember the hours I spent teaching it to you.
If, when I speak to you, I repeat the same things thousand and one times．．．do not interrupt me ．．．listen to me.When you were small, I had to read to you thousand and one times the same story until you get to sleep．．．
When I do not want to have a shower, neither shame me nor scold me．．．Remember when I had to chase you with thousand excuses I invented, in order that you wanted to bath．．．
When you see my ignorance on new technologies…give me the necessary time and not look at me with your mocking smile…I taught you how to do so many things… to eat good, to dress well… to confront life…
When at some moment I lose the memory or the thread of our conversation… let me have the necessary time to remember… and if I cannot do it, do not become nervous… as the most important thing is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you listening to me…
If ever I do not want to eat, do not force me. I know well when I need to and when not.
當我的腿不聽使喚…..扶我一把….如同我曾扶著你踏出你人生的第一步….When my tired legs do not allow me walk...… give me your hand… the same way I did when you gave your first steps.
And when someday I say to you that I do not want to live any more… that I want to die… do not get angry… some day you will understand…Try to understand that my age is not lived but survived.
Some day you will discover that, despite my mistakes, I always wanted the best thing for you and that I tried to prepare the way for you..
You must not feel sad, angry or impotent for seeing me near you. You must be next to me, try to understand me and to help me as I did it when you started living.
.Help me to walk… help me to end my way with love and patience. I will pay you by a smile and by the immense love I have had always for you.
I love you son…
Why do we do this to ourselves? Because there's no reason for making a fuss over cooking for yourself, when cooking for other people there is this motivation to cook well for them to eat well, not only because of your image but for their wellbeing; yet why isn't this projected onto ourselves when cooking for ourselves? It's a one off thing we say, yet day after day, week after week, you're becoming more malnutritioned in the short term it's unnoticable but in the long run it just isn't healthy...
But ordering takeaway is just easy? Wrong. Either way you're waiting for someone else to cook it for you and deliver it to you it'll take the same time just less effort on your own part. Take care of yourselves and eat healthy I guess is the main point I'm trying to pull across.