The two step flow.

Now before I begin, I know I'm going to be attacked by people saying"

I'm responsible for what I say, not for what you understand

On the contrary, these two practically go hand in hand. For actions you take and the words you speak, once spoken and/or interpreted, cannot be revoked. In today's society many people have found the power of blogging and microblogging to begin to, in effect, type before they think things through.

Most, of which, is to spread negativity of others. In which is the topic that I'm tackling today. For that moment of 'relief' and vented out anger, you should step back and begin to look at the bigger picture, begin to see what you do and what you say and how it reflects on you as a person, either directly or indirectly, how people would start seeing you as a result of them.

You'll soon see that the more you begin to think positively - everything seems to be a lot easier.

it's true, you know.

x

Fairytales

I'm not sure if I'm being naive on this matter, but I often when I hear people say "we're not the same, it's not going to work" as complete and utter bulls excrement.

This phrase should just be replaced with I don't care enough to put any effort in this / I'm too selfish to consider your thoughts and needs as well as my own.

The reason for this is, no-one is exacltly the same, and no-one has complete interest in everything one another does. This is exactly why things are so 'sweet' at the beginning because you don't care about the flaws, and you're willing to put in the effort for one another to find a middle ground because that's what you want. Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that what relationships are about? Finding a middle ground? Communicating with eachother? Compromising for one another?

Soon, when things aren't as great as they seem in your mind than it is in real life issues like 'incompatibility' comes in. Well you can take your sorry excuse and put it where the sun doesn't shine, because for all I care grow a pair and say it straight why don't you?

Lame excuses are lame.

Have you encountered any lame excuses like this? Gets right on my milk makers when people are too cowardly to suck it up and say things straight.

sorry it's been a while
k x

disclaimer: this isn't aimed at anyone specifically just the topic aggrevates me