This phrase should just be replaced with I don't care enough to put any effort in this / I'm too selfish to consider your thoughts and needs as well as my own.
The reason for this is, no-one is exacltly the same, and no-one has complete interest in everything one another does. This is exactly why things are so 'sweet' at the beginning because you don't care about the flaws, and you're willing to put in the effort for one another to find a middle ground because that's what you want. Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that what relationships are about? Finding a middle ground? Communicating with eachother? Compromising for one another?
Soon, when things aren't as great as they seem in your mind than it is in real life issues like 'incompatibility' comes in. Well you can take your sorry excuse and put it where the sun doesn't shine, because for all I care grow a pair and say it straight why don't you?
Lame excuses are lame.
Have you encountered any lame excuses like this? Gets right on my milk makers when people are too cowardly to suck it up and say things straight.
sorry it's been a while
disclaimer: this isn't aimed at anyone specifically just the topic aggrevates me