Day 3 – Your idea of the perfect first date.
OK, to clarify things in advanced, there is no PERFECT DATE SCHEDULES - if anyone thinks so they're rather superficial (I'll be waiting on your hate mail). A perfect / successful first date would be allowing you to get to know him, and him to get to know you (likewise for girls to guys) but here are a few things that could make it more interesting / sweet / cliché / romantic:
1. Something new to them but not to you
By doing this, you're letting them know a part of you. Examples - may not apply to you as you may be unfamiliar with it too! - rock climbing for those who want to be extreme, a restaurant be it a high class or a amazing low class one
2. Something you're both not used to
You may be with someone who doesn't like treading on thin ice - so why not be in the grey area together? Shows them that you're equals.
3. Somewhere with a peaceful background
You could give each other all the attention you need and I guess it'll make you both feel relaxed to open up to each other - it's a first date after all, what better than to get to know each other more. I'm thinking like walks along river banks, in a park watching the stars, you see it in the movie's I'm sure you know what I mean...
I'm out of ideas for now but you know, you could always take them to dinner and the movies - like everyone else...
In this day and age, where everything is just as easy to access - it's real hard to determine what's a date and what's a couple of friends enjoying each others company. I guess the best was to determine it is within the individuals themselves, how they feel about eachother...
But the best dates are determined by who you're with and how they make you feel, everything else - icing on the cake. I don't know if I could stress that enough.